For real men, there is no excuse for slacking off! Just because we’re not as fashion conscious as women, we have a responsibility to the ladies to look our best or at least try. Women love to be with men who are well dressed and exude confidence in the way they act. So in the spirit of brotherhood, I wish to impart some manly advice on what to wear…

I remember the first time I saw rappers in MTV wearing their over sized clothes, at first I thought that’s really cool, but then I realized that was back in the 90’s!!! First of all, Hip-Hop fashion was evolved over the past few years. From P.Diddy, Pharell Williams to Phat Farms, Hip-Hop fashion with its bright colors, sports & athletic inspiration, and over over-sized design, Hip-Hop fashion was glamorous and here to stay.

So what’s wrong with wearing over-sized shirts then? I’ll tell you what’s wrong with it. It’s when a person is lost in the sea of garments. Most people wearing oversized shirts look like they are drowning in their overweight uncle’s old hand me down t-shirts. If you really observed those who wear oversized shirts in the Hip-Hop world, they all have well-build bodies. Most athletes and African-American have broad shoulders, athletic muscular bodies, and stand 6 feet tall. For the rest of us Asian size men, its better to trim to size a little bit and look for clothes that fit us without looking like the shirts came from some counterfeit Chinese company that makes only one size fits all shirts for America.

            Admittedly, this is one fashion mistake I’d like to erase from my memory. There was a time when everybody in school was wearing sandals and socks. Socks are for shoes and Sandals are for feet. Think abut it, what is the purpose of wearing the sandals? Isn’t it too looking rugged and laid back while you walk around the beach or even the mall? Wearing socks would just ruin the look (specially, techni-colored ones!) you’re going for. First, it doesn’t make you any classier. Second, if your socks get dirty, how are going to be able to hide it? And lastly, it just looks crappy and out of style. A good pair of sandals doesn’t exactly come cheap these days, so if you got a pair of good looking rugged pair of sandals, be proud and show them of. Of course, do make sure that your feet are clean and toenails are trimmed because if they are not, that’s another article.

            Like Mr. T of the A-Team used to say,… “I Pity the Fool!!!”
If you’re one of those guys that thinks all the jewelry in the world will make you feel the “Donald” Mr. Trump, well you sadly confused. So let me feel enlighten you with a little hint, wearing too much jewelry is like when women wear too much make up, it makes you look cheap. A simple gold stud on your left ear (the right ear conveys a different message) is fine to show rebellious side. A gold chain, corresponding bracelet, and even a nice ring look good when you’re going for a stylish Mafia look. However, avoid jewelry that makes it look like your carrying the entire hidden wealth of the Marcoses. It’s all about completing the look and highlighting your outfit. Avoid over the top and crazy designs reserved for Paris Hilton and her pet dog Tinkerbelle. Hip-Hop stars are primary to blame here for all the bling going around, but even the snazziest ones practice a little restrain when wearing them. And that goes for Rockers as well, please stay away from crazy design that looks like they belong in the old Mad Max films (Mel Gibson) or the WWE (World Wrestling Entertainment).

            Two words, Kriss-Kross! Does anybody remember these guys? Or should I say kids! Back in the early 90’s they burst into the Hip-Hop scene with their over-sized low waist pants worn backwards. So what’s the conclusion for this fashion foolishness? Childish! Loose pants or jeans are very comfortable and great too, but avoid looking like your just lost 50 kilos by joining the show “The Biggest Loser”. Pants that fits well convey a sense of confidence and toughness with a hint of sexiness, which will definitely make the ladies notice.

Remember, women like guys wearing the right fit, have a sense of style and don’t rely too much on the trends and find a way to complement and highlight their handsome looks. Your clothes should not be too tight, not too loose; not too long and not too short. Wear and buy clothes with the right fit and size. Find a nice alterations shop to help you get the clothes to fit better. Don’t ever do the bling and end up looking like Tinkerbelle and get rid of those white socks if you’re wearing sandals.